Seduction. It’s How You’ll… You Know.
Why making the effort to understand your partner matters.
Let me set the scene. You’ve been seeing this guy for a month. Dating has been going really well. Things have been getting hot and heavy for the last couple of weeks. It’s clear he wants something, but just when you’re about to close the deal. He stops. He leaves you wanting more. You beg for him to stay, but he grins and gives you a kiss on the forehead and a playful wink. “Soon.” He says. You’re now a quivering mess.
Now, let me set another scene. You’ve been seeing this guy for a month. Dating has been going really well. Things have been getting hot and heavy for the last couple of weeks. He takes off your shirt and then your pants. He does all the right things in bed, and he even makes you orgasm. He finishes and then gets dressed and leaves after a bit more kissing and other stuff. You feel like you’ve done this before with others.
Now. Which one sounds better. If you said the first one. You’d be right. Because that’s how seduction works. It has the goal of sexy fun time, only it’s on a different timetable. Playing hard to get isn’t a bad thing. In fact, it might be the best part. I’m talking about thoughtful focused seduction of your partner. I’m not talking about simple flirting.
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